My plan for Christmas cards is to have S and I in front of the tree or fire place with our matching PJs, but I don't know if that will happen, but I am with you, if they don't get done then it isn't a problem.
I am with you about working with H and feeling strange, and the same with the names. I will sometimes slip and call him honey, but I will usually call him by his name, which is weird every time I do it. I don't think he has done the same with me. He still just doesn't use any name at all.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89