Where's the OM in all this? How often does she see him?
If you feel uncomfortable, that's okay. I know what that's like. One minute you're saying you need space for yourself and the next you're feeling guilty. Right now you're making things a little too easy for her. There needs to be a tiny shift in the circumstances to move things along.
Do what you feel comfortable doing.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.