Forest Gump Thank you for the list of questions --- its so hard to take a deep look at yourself and not blame yourself. I was the one for about a month and a half expressing concern over our marriage - our intimacy and how lonely and disconnected I felt from him. He never responded and I pulled back more - my insecurities grew more - I never felt I was "hot" enough for my husband. He hung out with a very ritzy attractive crowd and I always felt insecure around them -- hence why I hated when he went out with them. My husband also in the past has made comments to me about weight, ect..I dont know who I am anymore except for being a wife and mommy. I know I need to work on finding me right now but that is what is scaring me. I think the coach wanted my husband "to miss me a bit" as when wee got seperated he got so comfortable with seperation he called me honey baby and called like nothing was wrong as long as I didnt bring up anything about us. Of course tonight I did - and he was furious and said I thought we were cooling off for the Holidays... I just cant help it I may have to go to the book store and buy this book I cant wait for it anymore. I dont want to go back to the same marriage -- I would want us to create a different one that addressed our issues and met both of our needs. I dont want to be in a marriage where either of us are unhappy
