Sal,
It was Argus's thread She is going to OCT. 2nd seminar - good or bad? I think.

anyways Peter and I have talked about this before. I wanted to show my H Peters posts and he wanted to show his W my posts. the thing is everyone has to learn their own lessons at their own pace on their journey. you can send her all the copies of posts you think that would be good but how she will receive them I dont know ... you know her best how do think she would take it? as pressure or so what 'Sues obviously an idiot.... I have a very long post on Karen Dewitts thread in 180 forum "no longer the victim" I am sure many H's would wish their W's would read that one. But the conclusion that Peter and I came to was that they are just not where we are yet. He did say he has saved some of them and let her know of them if she would like to read them.

Sue