Feels we could never get over it ( the A) it will always be there...she says.
This could be just deflection on her part...
Or it could be a legitimate concern...
You're there. You need to try to tell which. Understand that true remorse for something like an infidelity would likely include a belief on her part that this IS something you could never get over.
Again, don't beat it into the ground. But somehow she would eventually need to know that forgiveness is there.
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."