Having car sex with married men was her idea. She told me that married men were safe (whatever that means). She said she saw it as just sex. She wasnt interested in a relationship until she met me. Or at least that's what she told me.

She was married for about 11 years and was faithful according to her. Even two years past her X's affair she was not having sex. She said she simply went through a faze where she wanted it all the time and from anyone and in a way she is still there from what I can tell but she has sworn to not cheat on me while we are together. I believe her.

Anyway the point is moot now. I have decided to let her out of my life gently. I can live without sex and dont want to hurt anybody. Been hurt enough myself by my XWs betrayal and divorce so I do not wish that kind of pain on anyone.

Thanks for all your input. It's what I needed.

Me:48
W:55
M:22
T:23
Bomb:19Nov09
S:15Jan10
D:11Feb10
EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10
Fast track to her divorcing me