Another story of a WH and an LBS

[newmama]

BD (sorry to hijack, G)it is actually a good thing that he has not moved back home and you two are going through MC longer! I have been listening to my exSIL and her stories of misery over remarrying too soon before her H "got it." You don't want a false reconciliation! Get it right for the best potential(and you are making great gains it sounds like, even though you want it back to before, understandably).

A friend of mine's sister's exH wants to reconcile. He didn't cheat but they divorced when their baby was a couple of months old. SHe is biting at the bit to move back in with him but since their R talks, he has been showing signs of not changing and my friend is warning her sister to insist on more time and more counseling to change the problem areas first.

SO I completely get your frustration, totally!!! But damn, girl, you are dealing with the opportunity to be with your H again for the rest of your life so hang in there and realize the progress you have made (EXCELLENT JOB) and see that it is better to take it slow to make sure it can last this time. :-)