g450, it sounds like you are using this woman. I KNOW, you can tell someone "I told you I don't want to marry you and you are free to break up with me whenever you want" but the more she is with you, the more invested she will become, and the more pain it will cause when you break up. She wants something different....it is selfish. I don't mean to sound harsh, and I realize you aren't seeing it like that. But I really think that is the case here.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
