"We cried together again and this time separated for approximately two months at which time i entered into counseling to try and figure out why i pursued the other woman. We reconciled and spent the next two years together better than ever, though she still complained of my jealous and controlling behavior."
So what did the Counseling do for you? What did you learn?
If it really was "better than ever" why was she still complaining?
I mean.. just going on what you said.. she should be the jealous and controlling one.
"She has since stopped responding to my text messages and says she has never loved me like a wife should love her husband, that she has no feelings for me and that she stopped caring a long time ago."
Here is a hard question for you.. you ready?
Why has she not been been able to love you like a wife should?
Think about it.. give it your best shot.
"I told her we can fix it and she says its to late to repair our marriage and that i will never understand her feelings. I would appreciate any input as to what steps i make take to fix my marriage or is it even possible"
The only reason you think it can be fixed.. is cause she has "fixed" it a few times on her own.
So.. prove to me you understand her feelings.
Post them right here.
You understand.. that "fixing" your marriage lies right in the words you posted.. right?
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
