Glam - I didn't mean to pressure you to post... I'm sure you'll know if/when the time comes. I'm just happy that you are still here offering your insight to us...thank you
I did reply to my H, just said your are welcome and that I'm sorry and that I'm sure that things will get better. I didn't want to go any further. At our last meeting he sounded so confident about the path he is on.
GAG - You sure gave something to think about. I'll see if I can somehow incorporate more "feel good" moments for him
One thing that he said at the meeting came back to me and I've been thinking about it.
As I was defending myself I said "I'm not trying to prevent you from being happy, I've let you go" He jumped and angrily said "Let me go? I don't need your permission. What do you mean let me go, you can't hold me, you have no right"...so obviously I used the wrong choice of words...I corrected myself and said "in my mind" he seemed pacified with that. Again seems like a teenager fighting for freedom....I can see that he may see a mother figure in me when I make statements like that.
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