Finally got internet fixed yesterday! Needed a new modem!
Thanksgiving went well! SS and Dil and kids stopped by my brother's house for dessert! Funny that SS chose to come by my brother's rather than spend time at either one of his parents!
I was home when H picked up the kids on Sat. I busied myself cleaning my bedroom and didn't know he had arrived. Heard commotion and thought the dogs were coming upstairs so I walked to the door and about bumped into H. Apparenlty D12 took it upon herself to tell him that we needed to talk about xmas.
It felt weird talking to him in our old room. I kinda tried to "herd" him downstairs and get them on their way...H chatted up a storm and was even gracious enough to share that he almost cut the tip of his thumb off and later mentioned that he was going for a colonoscopy and that I should do whatever I needed to do since the deductible had been met this year and while I still had benefits...wasn't that nice of him?
They finally left! I remember not so long ago how bothered I was that he wouldn't stay for more than 5mins and now I am wanting him to go!!!!
His sister was in town and took the kids and I to lunch on Sunday. She had called H and asked if he'd stop by SS's with the kids on his way to bring them home so she could see them and he said yes and then told the kids he wasn't going to! So, she came to my house and we went out. She told me she thought that he was afraid to see her cause he went to their Uncle's funeral without her. (told her he might not be able to get off work and then took OW with him instead).
This is family that he has not seen for years. They had no idea that we were getting a D until his cousin called here looking for him.
The kids and I put out the xmas deco and put the tree up...thinking I will look for a new tree topper...an angel maybe...was remembering last year wondering if that was the last xmas we would spend together as a family....
Got home tonight to a message from my L to call her! It is never good when she calls! Wonder what is going on now?
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
