It's been awhile since I've visited. I've always loved your thread, loved your humor and your honest reflections on things happening in your life. In my mind I have always thought that you sounded like a hell of a guy, someone I absolutely would not mind having a beer with.
For some time I honestly believed that your wife would come back around. My heart was truly saddened for you when she married the other dude.
Yet you have survived, nay, even thrived in the aftermath of one of the worst losses any of us can experience - divorce.
I say all these things to let you know that I hold you in the highest regard, especially given that you are someone I have never met but for here in the cyber world.
I know you still love your ex-wife. I know you do. I can almost literally feel it in the words you write. And, for now at least, it seems you can continue to live well loving her even as she remains married to another.
But I worry about you too.
A good relationship with an ex-spouse is highly desirable, especially when young children are involved. I'm glad that I have a reasonably decent working relationship with my ex. I'm also exceedingly glad that circumstances do not require us to interact on anything like a regular basis.
Just take care of yourself. Live your life, and do so keeping yourself open to all the opportunities that life presents. And please be careful not to allow your continuing love for your ex-wife to allow you to remain trapped with her forever.
You are worth much, much, more than that.
Blessings my friend,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
