I would like to know also. I bought my h a shirt from a concert I went to that we always have seen together. I was thinkin christmas but not sure if it will push him away. We also have two kids. One 7 and one 10. That changes the sich I wuld think a bit. My h left in june and moved things out in august. Not happy with anything, selfish, and is depressed. He said he wanted a divorce but has not done anything. What do u think about presents?