Thanks Mila. I have wanted to post something about my situation, but just haven't found the words yet. I find myself here as a reminder of what I went through and to possibly help those that are struggling and to offer encouragment from the other side.

As far as the email to your h something like sorry h you are feeling that way. I am here for you if you would like to talk comes to mind.

I always tried to take the higher road with my h. He didn't offer much in the way of responses nor did he seem to acknowledge my kindness in the beginning, but I guess in the end it did pay off.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"