Sue, I figured that.thats why i didn't expect you to give it out.well i think its safe here.i'm pretty sure my wife has been looking at my threads.ive taken your advice,and got rid of thoughts of getting involved with anyone else.its not worth it.i'm not really ready anyway. your wrote on another site,for me to cut ,paste and e-mail.do you think thats a good idea?also i cant remember whos thread it was.i got to go,kids driving me crazy,with homework. peace