I'm working really hard embracing and living the LRT but am unclear about gift giving during the holidays. H and I have always exchanged gifts. I know with the LRT one is not supposed to purchase gifts as this is seen as pursuing. Any thoughts??

Thanks

M9+ T 11+
Me42 H44
2 kids under 5
IlYBNILWY -3/10
A discovered late 8/10
H moved out early 9/10 - back two weeks later
"Taking a Break" - H moves out 1/2/10