Disbelief, My H also has just NC'd his OW, and just like your W, is getting really depressed. I cannot help but do exactly the same as you, so I would say all of this is normal reaction. But everyone says here to just quit focusing on them, keep doing GAL. One thin I alkso have been working on at this point is to start on taking away the resentment, especially the thoughts of how he can be feeling depressed over another woman! Also start working on forgiveness, because if not, then you cannot be sincere in your DB and it will all be an act.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
