Yes, I read that and my impression is that my H seems to be going though the stages quite fast. I think he is starting depression actually. He already has admitted to extreme guilt, has cried, letting me know how inadequate he feels, and is starting to brood and be silent and withdrawing from me. He seems to seek comfort in friends and family - he has been callin relatives he negected during the time he had OW, trying to invite them over, wanting to entertain and cook. I do wish though he would stop and look inside himeself and think things out. I hope the depression stage doesn't last too long too and that he will see the light soon enough!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go