If they don't feel in love, you cannot change that. You need to take the pressure off. She may come around but only if she doesn't feel like she's being forced to do something against her will.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
