Thanks Jack and Mila. I'm not giving up on the spousal or the child. It's just like that's all he cared about was money since the beginning of this MLC. He left claiming he wanted to have cash to pay for things and in his pockets to spend, well he had that for a while and he still wants it, cause that's all I hear about is how broke he is, he has no clue to what broke is.

The hard part is on the form it asks if I think the M is irrivability broken but in order to contest the D I have to say I disagree. And that is the way I feel, I feel he got too many people involved (mostly his family) and doesn't know how to get out of the mess he made by lying about me.

But then again, he does believe the lies he tells sometimes. I don't know how they do it.

Jack, how long did it take for you and your W to start to reconcile? I can't remember if there was a D filed or not with your sitch.

I have my meeting at 3 tomorrow so anymore advice or thoughts I would appreciate it. I think he will crap when he finds out I can't keep the house, cause I can't afford it or maintain it by myself. H thinks that is what I want......the house and that's it.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08