I hate the lies that my H will tell the girls when they ask to see him. He will say " I have to go to sleep because I have to go to work in the middle of the night". Then we will drive by the bar that the OW bartends at and there is his truck. My girls are not stupid - they get pissy. My D12 will call him immediatley - but D10 just worries about me and if I am okay when I see it.
He says that his girls are the only thing he cares about, but when he pulls that sheot it really hurts them. You have to wonder how this will effect thier adult relationships in the future? I feel helpless sometimes.
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12
