I need advice really fast. H is proceeding with D after he found out at the hearing last week that he will have to pay spousal support and more child support if he drops me from his benefits.

I have to go to my lawyers tomorrow and either contest or agree.

I read on Standing for your Sweetheart that if you are standing to contest but then on another site it said not to contest and give the MLCer what they want.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08