Whatever you determine would be the right amount...cut that "number" back. You are still reeling from the shock and wanting to make things right, so your brain is going to spring loaded to overcompensate... So whatever your brain figures out as the right amount...it's too much...cut back
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11