Whatever you determine would be the right amount...cut that "number" back. You are still reeling from the shock and wanting to make things right, so your brain is going to spring loaded to overcompensate...
So whatever your brain figures out as the right amount...it's too much...cut back


M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11