I am a little stuck on how much nice things I should do for my husband without coming off as pursuing. In the past, I was non-responsive to things he wanted or needed. This was an old habit as I had tried to do things earlier in our marriage. I gave up and last year he made some efforts to feed our marriage again. Although I was all for this, I had just started a new job and really didn't have time for myself let alone my husband and kids. I kind of over did it, but after being a stay home mom for several years and working part-time the last three years I was very enthusiastic of starting my dream career.
Anyhow, his love language is quality time and physical touch. Can't do much of either of these two under the circumstances.
I want to show him kindness, but how? I suppose listening and just asking him how he is doing. I don't know. I don't want to do too much.
M = 10.5 years H = 35 W = 39 D = 10 S = 12 SD = 19 Bomb Dropped = 10/27 EA = April
