This morning started off with me waking from a sh!tty Dan dream. For some reason we were alone together and talking and somehow (details fuzzy from dream) he decided to be a jerk and he started telling me in detail all the things that he and ow were doing together sexually and how much more he liked it with her than with me. Wtf? Crappy dream.
Then I leave my morning preschool job and see that I have a text from Dan. "Did Nathan take communion?" Ugh.
Here's the deal. Dan was raised Lutheran, where you have a special First Communion ceremony when you hit a certain grade in school. He and I decided together to raise our kids in a non-denominational church. (He said he did not like some of the fire and brimstone stuff from his Missouri Synod days.) Anyway we kept with tradition somewhat in that both our kids were baptized in a Lutheran church--the one where we got married, the one he attended growing up, the one where he got confirmed. So it had sentimental value.
Anyway, for the last 6 years we went to nondenominational churches and he liked it that way. Also when he moved out, he said we would be going to church together regardless. And we did, meeting at church on Sundays and sitting together. Then when he started back up again with ow, he stopped going to church. We talked about it, he said he would go, then he didn't. So I dropped it.
Now, Dan is mad. Our church says that once you know what the communion represents (Jesus dying for our sins), you may take communion. Not interested in a religious debate I am just saying Nathan met the qualifications....
Well now Dan is upset. He just texted me that communion is a sacrament and his baptismal sponsors and both his parents should have been there...
