You sound good peace. We have had a long road haven't we.
For the sake of my children, I do wish ex the best also. I don't want them to have to experience any more loss than they already have. It is so sad to see self-destruction. The bottom line is that breaking apart a family has major consequences for both the ML'er and the other person involved.
At times we wish them ill, but in the long run where does it really get us. We can only move on and show them how life really should be lived.

Trusting


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11