Well,I dont need legal advise on this matter. I have packed it all up and given it to my lawyer. She didnt quit her great paying job. Instead it seems the thrill of the affair wore off so she resorted to stealing from people. What she did is a federal offense in both Canada and the U.S. She is still under investigation with her old employer and I have not talked to her to see what has been done to date. i am shocked she left all this sitting in the car when she returned the car to the dealer.
The worst part about all this was the 7 attempts of writing a letter to OM trying to explain why she left. So she came home under false pretenses and when her fears about the OM not accepting her and loving her were lifted, obviously by his conversation with her, she ran right back to him.
She has spiralled out of control. She has lost everything she has worked so hard to obtain. Her kids, her family, her home, car and her financial security.
To be honest, Ihave to ask myself wether I want to bust the affair and work on my marriage. I think I have hit the end of the road here. She has done nothing but cause me pain and financial trouble. Now it seems it could get worse from here on out.
