MLC or just an EA?

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You can expect both of you to have lots of ups and downs, and there's no specific length of time.

What can you do for yourself to make yourself happy?

This is correct, times even in the stages of MLC are not reliable.

Have you read the 6 stages of MLC by HeartsBlessing?

The following is the resource thread for MLC.
If your husband is in OW withdrawal then it is at the tail end of replay stage.
Hope this helps.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1539436#Post1539436