feelings as OW seems to be on way out

[peacetoday]

Forward

sorry your Xh is having medical issues right now
it is never easy to see someone we care about in pain
You are a true friend to him ans what a blessing
I didnt know you before but Im sure this is a huge step for any x wife especially under the MLCer situation
and on other side the universe has certainly taken care of you
and is giving you anoither chance at love with what seems like a truely positive and nice man
I would focus more on that to continue your walk forward
your Xh could use a friend and that you are, but a detatched friend..it still seems like he may have a million miles to go and while we each have the choice of how much energy we want to put into a relationship, and we will support you either way, you may want to consult your intuition or higher resources to decide what is best for you..I have my opinions, but each of us have to choose.
Peace