So today, I thought I am not going to let H's lack of care affect me and I sent him a humorous multiple choice question as to why he had not been in contact.
He basically replied that I had not told him anything about the op or the recovery and so he thought he would be intruding. Pfft! I'm a pretty open book so I don't care much for that excuse.
He knows that I thought that was a pretty lame excuse.