You are, obviously, a loving caring person. If you knew my wife, I'm sure your heart would poor out to her, too. My wife suffers from anxiety/panic/depression; she is also seeking medical treatment. Even though I am the LBS, the pain that I carry pales when compared to hers.
This crises has challenged me to the core, in ways I've never dreamt possible. I realize that I need to redefine my role in our marriage; I need to learn how I can be more supportive of my wife's emotional needs; and I need to be a positive force in my wife's recovery so that we can live a healthy, happy, life together.
I'm not here looking for spiteful, mean spirited, tactics to hurt my wife. If I can't be part of a positive solution to our problems, I would prefer to part company as friends and be done with it.
To that extent, your complaints against the editing are (IMO) valid. I am the one asking for advice; I want to know my options. I'm an adult, fully capable of filtering the information on my own. I don't need to be coddled. If the posts were not vulgar or offensive, they should not have been deleted or edited. Yet I didn't see the posts, so, I guess I'll never know.
