I know where you are - I might join but might also just NOT and be done with all of this, lol! I have been reading "there" and it's quite good and informative and lovely.
I am sorry to have to say what I did but things don't have to be this way. Aren't we supposed to be communicating and not controlling of other people? There was no swearing, racial slurs or nastiness. He asked what we thought and I offered my opinions.
The "I don't agree but will keep it up line" really was the limit.