You are correct. We don't have to post here. I can only speak for myself but there are a few situations posted here (not this thread, I was just offering an opinion when asked) that I care about... when people are deep in emotional abuse and anxiety/panic/depression to the point of needing medical intervention, well, sadly I can relate. And sometimes it's nice to have that bond with somebody who can REALLY relate to such personal trauma.

There is not a reason in the world we can't know WHY this is happening when we don't know WHAT rules we are breaking.

We have asked and we are ignored and given an answer that does not provide insight.

I promised myself I would post here for one year after my separation since so many people supported me. That is why I continue to post here.