I am in a similar sitch. W has confidants she chats with. She keeps coming up with new bombs to drop on me. I went thru the snooping phase and the wondering what she's feeling and thinking constantly. Trust me, it will only ruin your mood and your day. You've got to find some joy in your life and just let her do her thing. Resist thinking about her and wondering, for your own good man.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
