feelings as OW seems to be on way out

[forward]

I noticed that various OW items in X's place were removed.

And...I know this isn't a good thing to do but I looked up OW and saw pics of her laughing w/boys her own age. Matter of time before she finds someone new. No mention of her "fiance" any more. I just think to myself what a completely selfish person. X could really use emotional support now, I am sure. At the same time, I am not jumping on to that hook.

And I thought about X and felt bad for him. Most certainly he was alone or close to it on the holiday, in pain, and a similar Christmas is looming. Perhaps someone will be nice to him over the holidays. But I've kept telling myself that it is important I do not interfere.

Again, he has what he wanted. But this is a continuing journal of the MLC saga.

My life is good right now. New Guy is interesting and my job is going fairly well (grateful to have one, in this economy). I'm also in good shape physically.

Part of me wants to say to ILs "I told you so."