Originally Posted By: reccos
InAPickle,
I like your suggestion...

But what happens if it means not being able to pay the mortgage or the utilities because she doesn't want to be accountable?

I am curious how you would handle that?...



Your sitch is different, because my W is worried about $ but yours is not. So I have control.

I didn't know things were that dire for you. I would approach her as business partner and discuss the finances, and see where that takes you.


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