Help save my WAW

[NotReadyToQuit]

i know i shouldn't snoop. it's just that it's the only way i can get any insight into what she's feeling and when i DO find something, it's a feeling that you shouldn't end a marriage on. i don't know who all she's talking to, but someone is in her ear telling her that this is a good move. i'm just so worried. she won't talk to me about any of it. the last time we talked about our R, it was about my apartment search. i know i'm supposed to just let it be and give her space, but it's killing me!