ok, so i just found a note that my W wrote to herself (maybe for a blog or something). she says that "it's not about family or friends, it's about feeling loved. we need different things to feel loved and we just can't provide that for each other."

to me, this is definitely not a reason to end a marriage and 13 yr relationship!! i know i shouldn't bring up talk about our R, but i really feel like i need to address this. please, please, someone give me some feedback.


M:28
W:28
Together:13yrs
high school sweethearts
Married:2
currently filing
living separately