Ok, so I got another email from the unknown person. This time the told me some interesting things about my W and her new life. They told me she got fired from her job, she pawned our wedding rings and her engagement ring. So i asked her, she didnt tell me anything.
Here is where I had a bad lapse of judgement. I called her old employer and asked for a reference for her. For every question I pretty much got the "no comment reply". I then went to the car dealership, paid them some money on her arrears and got access to the car. There is enough evidence in the car to get her jail time. She owes money to everyone including pay day advance places.
So now i have a car full of stuff that could create a lot of trouble for her. I couldnt leave it there. I am actually getting scared, she is still on title to my house and this could go from bad to worse.
i just dont even know what to say to her. She is leading a totally different life! I am taking some valium and staying away from my phone the rest of the night.
