That is an incredibly hard question. A DB coach is certainly cheaper than divorce. And a therapist that is not pro-marriage can actually hurt your chances and push you towards divorce.
That said, if you just don't have the money, working the steps in DR or Keeping Love Alive can save you so much, and achieve the desired results. A coach keeps you focused, points you to the right techniques for your goals. If you are very clear and focused, you can do this.
I understand exhaustion and a feeling like you have nothing left to give, or nothing left to try with. But miracles do happen, all the time.
We can help you work the steps here. But stay focused. Don't use a slapshot approach. Work it step by step.
