Yes Bobbi Jo - that's it! You want to be with someone - but you don't NEED to be. That's when you know you're ready.
My kids were even pushing me to date again. I think I drove them crazy after a while. I really did pine over their dad.
I remember when I was early in the dating scene. My C encouraged me to go on a 2nd or 3rd date with someone I had met - just because it was good experience. Not sure if that was the right way to go or not. I think I knew after the first date if I wanted to see someone again or not.
I remember the stress over wondering if someone would call again or not. I also remember picking up the phone on ocassion and making a date myself. Never hurt me in the long run.
I guess the key is balance. moderation. Same as most everything in life. Keep it all in perspective and see how it goes.
