Your probably right. My guess is that she's enjoying herself. The attention from OM, the new friends, the parties, but likes my company too. She wants it all.
When I asked her if she was still dating OM, she said no. She started crying and told me that this has all been so hard and that I can't hurt her again, because if I did she just doesn't think she could go through it again. My wife is a very sensitive person and I haven't always chosen my words as carefully as I should. So she keeps repeating that I have to promise not to hurt her again. I told her that It was never my intention to hurt her; that I'd be more careful; that I'd be more open and sharing with my feelings, that I will never take her for granted...
That was Saturday night. Then after our discussion, she tells me that she's on her way to visit her girlfriend, who's uncle died recently. She doesn't come home that night and she's out all weekend. This was a three day holiday in Panama and I don't think she has slept for days. What do you make of it.