so just had phone convo: what does he ask, have you filed? he wants it so bad. what does it do upsets me. he says, i don't want a piece of paper attached to you, so i say oh i guess the kids are not an attachment either?


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline