when was script is not script

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update;

Short work week last week with the thanksgiving holiday. Iknew that h would not ask for anytime with the kids at all for the 4 days, he only sent a happy thanks giving 7 pm on thanksgiving.

sunday i left a vm reminding him that i return to work on monday be at my work at 7 am for the exchange of the kids.

i explained how d3 was supposed to be dressed, and of course she railroaded him. she is the parent he is the child. one of my students even made a comment that they as students are a better parent then he is.

h did not want to hurt d3's feelings by having her wear a thick coat instead she wore her pj top as a coat. i got the excuse again that it was the bags issue, that's the 2nd time i've heard that.

i expressed some genuine concerns of s9months now being able to crawl, how safe is their home, they are hoarders and i have seen stacks and piles of what the front door would allow me to see.

i gave him some choices, let me see if it's safe, take pics or i can have cps or the police do a safety check. i feel like it is hard ball, but there is no talking or reasoning to him. he feels as every problem i voice is a personal attack on him.

if he didn't have a history of bad choices, allow d3 to rule him, and him saying, on times i don't see d3,i give her whatever she wants. so obviously he is having guilt over not seeing them, but that was his choice when he left us.

DA#$% not dumbledores army should have realized that while he was in vegas, out partying or choosing his family over these kids, he could be in their lives each and every day. boy xmas is going to stink for him aswell. i'm off for 2 weeks and i have told him that if anyone wants to see the kids they can come to their home, their comfort level, they are not going to be drug around being show turkeys. d3 tells me she doesn't like her father's house, she doesn't like to be out and about long, and continually says she wants to go home to her house, her room her pets, etc..