Sounds like a great idea. I have found that calling and speaking with possible MC has been VERY helpful with (b). In particular, Virginia at DB... advice could be applied to other MCs as well.
I think if I were to keep following her advice, I would eventually get H there... today not really feeling like I want to as much. I have promised myself to at least try before D is final no matter how I feel about him at the time.
Today is the first day I have seen H. He has resumed his regular haircut and seemed to need to stay in my area much more than necessary today. We exchanged friendly hellos and kept walking. Know what I felt?... nothing. No butterflies. No yearning for him to come talk to me. I even kind of avoided him, staying in a different part of the critical care unit. He never spends that much time in CCU. Don't know what is going through his mind and cared very little... this I can finally say with sincerity.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
