Cat, thanks for always being there and for your wisdom and advice...
WCW, Last time I reached out to H was a couple weeks ago. He came to pick up the Ds, and I sent a check out that he needed to sign and put into the joint account for me. The CU is there where he works. Along with the check to show my appreciation and thanks, I sent D out with a piece of freshly baked cranberry bread. (One of his favorites) She told her Dad, "Here, this is for you." He put it down in the truck and never acknowledged it. He just complained as to why he had to deposit the check and why couldn't DIL do it instead.
Mila, How I know you'd understand about him taking ow somewhere that had special meaning to us, or I guess just me. I will strive to handle it with the grace and dignity you did.
Punkin, my Ds have already said that they want Christmas at home. They have had no choice in any of this. They have very strong feelings about having it here and this is one thing they've put their foot down about.
Ladies, thank you all for your responses. I was just going along, livin my life and wham, something throws you off kilter. Thank you for helping me center myself again.
