She wants to be friends or date, and your wanting to go that route correct?
CityGirls advice is solid.
What if it escalates?
Into what?
It turns out that your fears are confirmed? Then she isn't ready.
The goal is prevent divorce, but not at any cost, if she only comes back on her terms? While that could be called unconditional love...you're lacking any for yourself.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
