I have to admit that most of the letter was plagiarized from posts above.

Not a good idea, humm

Isn't having the conversation (R Talk)?

What if it escalates?

Most likely, she will deny everything. That is what she did when I found the emails. "we are just friends"

If she asks me why I doubt her, what do I tell her? The truth, that I drove by her apartment at odd times of the night to check on her. I really don't see that going well