You are in a helpful place and the coaching is also very helpful! I've had two coaching sessions with Jodi, with the 3rd scheduled for tomorrow. My WAH is still living elsewhere, but we are getting along so much better now. I've stopped talking about the R, stopped begging, pleading, and trying to convince him that we can make this work. I know we can, but my 180s have to help convince him of that fact. Plus, it will help you get better control of yourself. It's hard--especially to act like you are okay and happy when you interact with him--but you can do it! The other just pushes them farther away. I wish I had found DB sooner than I did. Hang in there!


M-32, WAH 32
D-7 months
Bomb of PA 9/25
WAH left 10/24
D Filed by WAH