oh, and in addition. the thing that really seems to be most difficult for me is the fact that she was pregnant with our 2nd child until she miscarried at 12 weeks in august of this year. fast forward 2 months and shes done with the marriage and needs space.
She also made comments that "our son is old enough now where he doesnt need his mom like he used to." i stayed home with her for 2 weeks after the D&C. it seemed like she didnt outwardly grieve at all during that time. she was very emotional during our first miscarriage a few years ago.
she has also said a few months ago that she was worried about being emotionally ready to try and have another child.
i am worried about her. i know she said she wanted to see a counselor for herself. she got the authorization from the insurance but hasnt gone yet. im just really concerned about her detachment from our son.
